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    <updated>2026-06-04T18:15:59+03:00</updated>
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        <name>Ariane</name>
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        <title>Trying Out New</title>
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            <name>Ariane</name>
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        <updated>2026-06-04T13:51:31+03:00</updated>
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                    I've switched this site to use Publii, an open source static CMS because WordPress and even ClassicPress started to feel too bloated for this tiny site. Working with Publii reminds me very much of days before WordPress in a way! So far I'm liking it&hellip;
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                <p>I've switched this site to use <a href="https://getpublii.com">Publii</a>, an open source static CMS because WordPress and even ClassicPress started to feel too bloated for this tiny site. Working with Publii reminds me very much of days before WordPress in a way! So far I'm liking it a lot.</p>
<p>I made this theme which I call duskline and I'm really happy with it ✨</p>
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        <title>The Friday Five for 8 November 2024</title>
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            <name>Ariane</name>
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        <updated>2024-11-08T12:44:08+02:00</updated>
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                    Answers to today's questions at thefridayfive @ Dreamwidth 1. Where do you get ideas/inspo for your writing? Anything scifi I've ever watched or read. Also some erotic novels I bought in the 90s from the Black Lace series, particularly the historical ones. And all the&hellip;
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                <p>Answers to <a href="https://thefridayfive.dreamwidth.org/131911.html">today's questions</a> at thefridayfive @ Dreamwidth</p>
<p><strong>1. Where do you get ideas/inspo for your writing?</strong></p>
<p>Anything scifi I've ever watched or read. Also some erotic novels I bought in the 90s from the Black Lace series, particularly the historical ones. And all the fanfic I read! <strong>2. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Do you have a favorite place to write?</strong></p>
<p>Nope. I write on my couch or at my desk, but usually on my couch. I've tried writing outside on my tiny back yard and in a cafe, but I can't concentrate - there's too much noise and too many things going on as people pass by.</p>
<p><strong>3. What are your tricks for getting through writers block?</strong></p>
<p>I haven't found one that works. I'm not sure it's a writer's block I have though - I've always had difficulty starting (even back in school!), and after I got ill, I just don't have the energy to be creative much. So it's now hard because of that + still hard to start! Usually if I can keep writing, forcing it out, for about 30 minutes, it gets easier and easier after that and eventually I get into a "zone" where I can write for up to 6 hours without problems and a few short breaks not breaking the "zone". But then I'm wiped after that, but feel good.</p>
<p><strong>4. Favorite genre to write? Do you have a different favorite genre for reading?</strong></p>
<p>I love writing fanfic smut! It's definitely my favorite fanfic genre to write. As for reading - fanfic, I love reading smut as well.</p>
<p>I also love very much long, plotty but smutty fics that stick to the canon era/world, picks a point and then goes on to extrapolate how the story might go from there! <em>Game of Thrones</em> Sansa/Sandor fics are great for this! I love <em>so</em> many of them.</p>
<p>I also enjoy writing horror occasionally, and that's where scifi comes in.</p>
<p>As for reading published novels - I read detective/crime novels the most. But in recent years, I've re-discovered my love of scifi reading... but I only read more recent ones, such as <em>The Expanse</em> series by James S.A. Corey, <em>White Space</em> series by Elizabeth Bear, <em>Semiosis</em> series by Sue Burke. I <strong>loved</strong> <em>Seven Eves</em> by Neal Stephenson. Because at some point I got so fed-up with the "classic" scifi - Asimov etc. and one of the reasons for that was, that women characters were either absent or did nothing important and the men were the only heros. And I also found a lot of the writing style of the classic scifi boring. So I stopped reading scifi somewhere in the 90s.</p>
<p>My most favorite genre to read is a mix of of action-adventure/bit of romance/thriller/supernatural so novels like Dean R. Koontz writes, that type of thing.</p>
<p><strong>5. What is something you really want to write but haven't gotten around to yet?</strong></p>
<p>In my case it's more like, I'd really <em>really</em> like to not lose all interest once a story out of my head on paper/computer so I could post it to my site and AO3. But ever since I got ill, whenever I get the story out of my head, whether that's on paper or Scrivener/FocusWriter/LibreOffice on the laptop, in its very raw, vomited form - I lose <strong>ALL</strong> interest. It's <em>done</em>. It doesn't even come to my mind anymore. And it's too raw and uglymangled to be shared - half of it might be in English, some in Finnish, skipping bits of scenes or dialogue just to get it out, with the intention to write the bridges (usually just a sentence or two per missing bit) later on while cleaning it up. But cleaning up never happens because the story is DONE, complete once it's out, and I can ramp up exactly ZERO interest to do anything further with it. It simply is... <strong>DONE</strong>. That never happened before I got ill.</p>
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        <title>New Look &amp; Wondering About Smut Fic Ratings</title>
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            <name>Ariane</name>
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        <updated>2019-07-03T22:35:40+03:00</updated>
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                    Got fed up with the old look, so got a new theme made by the talented MonicaNDesign. I tinkered some with the CSS to make it a little more colorful :) I've going back and forth about how to rate my fic the last couple&hellip;
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                <p>Got fed up with the old look, so got a new theme made by the talented <a href="http://monicandesign.com/">MonicaNDesign.</a> I tinkered some with the CSS to make it a little more colorful :)</p>
<p>I've going back and forth about how to rate my fic the last couple of years! They're smut, PWP, erotica or whatever your want to call it, and for the longest time most of the similar smutty fics in the fandoms wrote and read in was usually rated R (ff.net and every place else in years past) or Mature (AO3).</p>
<p>I think mine are the same kind of sex scenes you can find in sexy romance novels, and that's always been talked as rated R or M in my circles, while erotica (like the novels published by Black Lace) and outright porn is NC-17/Explicit (AO3). But in the last few years it's started to seem to me that there's been a shift and the kind of romance novel typish smut fics are now rated Explicit on AO3, while Mature has gotten a lot more tame and with less words dedicated to to the sex itself? I don't know. I wonder if that's true, or if I'm imagining things... or maybe there's differences in rating smut between different fandoms? It's true that I'm now reading more in other, usually newer fandoms.</p>
<p>Personally, I've always rather thought that consensual sex scenes between adults should be R/Mature and non-con and just pure violence and abuse merit NC-17/Explicit. But that might just be because I'm Finnish and I don't think we're as puritanical about sexual and non-sexual nudity and sex as the people from US generally seem to be to me, and I guess the ratings that are mostly used for fanfic were created by US people.</p>
<p>So if you've noticed the ratings changing here or on AO3 that's just the rating itself - no fic content has changed! It's just me waffling back and forth about the proper rating. I think I've landed on Explicit finally, but if you have any opinions on the ratings in general, or what you think my smut would best be rated, I'd love to hear them!</p>
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    <entry>
        <title>Transformative Works Policy</title>
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            <name>Ariane</name>
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        <updated>2019-02-21T21:32:51+02:00</updated>
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                    Added my transformative works policy to the About Me page.
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                <p>Added my transformative works policy to the <a href="https://skeins.so-obsessed.com/about-me.html">About Me</a> page.</p>
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